Wednesday, November 19, 2008

I Win, You Win, Everybody Wins!

Have you ever felt that there is absolutely no way to successfully solve a difficult problem or situation? We all have.

But don't give up hope. Because for every door that is shut, a window is opened. The key is thinking Win-Win.

When having a Win-Win attitude, it is important to always be open minded and think positively about any situation life brings. You must give and take.

For example, you and a friend get in an argument at school about who should have the higher grade in lab because one of you did more work. You know that you deserve the points because you worked hard. You MUST think about how the other person feels and why.

Your friend is probably feeling the same way you do, so the best thing to do is sit down and figure out a way to split the points. Take each others feelings into account.

Doing this will not only make a deposit in your PBA, or personal bank account, but will also make a deposit in your RBA, or relationship bank account. Be the kindle to the fire in your relationships.

You will find yourself happier and with more friends if you find yourself living Win-Win.

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